Author Archives: Gail Cawley Showalter

What No One Tells You About What Really Matters in Life

Teaching Really Matters Since teaching wasn’t my first choice in a career I didn’t fully realize the significance of my work. In 1989 I was recruited to take the position of Teacher of the Visually Impaired for two school districts who had established a co-op. This required that I return to college, yet again. I […]

Why Authenticity is Important

Your spiritual life and your physical life may be in conflict as mine was. I think that the goal of spiritual growth is to bring them into complete coordination with each other. Freedom comes to life when you are authentic in all ways.

Take Control of Your Thoughts

I’ve spent a great deal of my adult like (lots of years) thinking about how I think. Why do I always gravitate to the negative? Why do I continually struggle with judgmental reactions to others?

Are You Wearing a “Personality” Mask?

Life isn’t easy for women who think they must fit a mold whether it is because of religion or family dynamics.

Life Transitions

With Transitions Comes New Life “Each transition begins with an ending. Change mean letting go of the old before we are able to embrace the new.” -William Bridges read more Talking with women about handling the transitions in their lives is one thing I can do to help. As a Life Coach with years and […]

Alice in Wonderland thinking

Who Am I?

Divorce Can Cause Identity Crisis Caterpillar asks, “Who are YOU?” to which Alice replies she no longer really knows anymore, after all the recent changes.     –  Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll  If you’ve had trouble with self identity after a long-term marriage or significant relationship, personality profiling can help. As a personality specialist I […]

Why You Should Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

I know from life in the school of hard knocks that in order to make progress and move forward in our lives we must step out of our comfort zone.

Words to Lose

Avoid These Words Our tongues can cause us and others serious trouble, hurt and sorrow. Watch out for these three words, especially when you talk with your children. They hear you.

Is Your Life a Facade?

Does everything appear lovely on the outside of your life? All is in order? You seems to others to have everything under control? But under it all you feel uneasy, stuck or even trapped?

Do You Have Pests in Your Life?

We all have them, those people who drive you nuts like a mosquito. Or perhaps worse like a poisonous snake. Either way there is no escaping this life without having to deal with pests.