What is the Wounded Gift?

Anam Cara by John O’Donohue

An excerpt from the book

One of the great powers of love is balance; it helps us move toward transfiguration. When two people come together, an ancient circle closes between them. They also come to each other not with empty hands, but with hands full of gifts for each other. Often these are wounded gifts; this awakens the dimension of healing within love. When you really love someone, you shine the light of your soul on the beloved. We know from nature that sunlight brings everything to growth. If you look at flowers early on a spring morning, they are all closed. When the light of the sun catches them, they trustingly open out and give themselves to the new light.

Anam Cara is a phrase that refers to the Celtic concept of the “soul friend” in religion and spirituality. The phrase is an anglicization of the Irish word anamcharaanam meaning “soul” and cara meaning “friend”. The term was popularized by Irish author John O’Donohue in his 1997 book Anam Ċara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom about Celtic spirituality. In the Celtic tradition “soul friends” are considered an essential and integral part of spiritual development.


One comment

  1. Nancy DeForest · · Reply

    No kidding! I just now reading this post. And when we talked earlier I mentioned Anam Cara. We are soul sisters!😘

    On Fri, Mar 12, 2021 at 11:01 AM Gail Cawley Showalter wrote:

    > Gail Cawley Showalter posted: ” Anam Cara by John O’Donohue An excerpt > from the book One of the great powers of love is balance; it helps us move > toward transfiguration. When two people come together, an ancient circle > closes between them. They also come to each other not wit” >

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